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		<title>Toan’s Home Tour — A Storied Space</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Toan Lam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 19 Jul 2019 22:24:04 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>I was honored to have one of my fave design websites, Apartment Therapy, do a tour of my storied San Francisco apartment and share my story,</p>
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<p>More than just a physical space, homes hold many deeply personal emotions, memories and stories.</p>



<p>Growing up, I was ashamed of my home. We were on welfare, living in bad neighborhoods in South Sacramento. Our first home in America was in a trailer park, all 10 of us crammed into one small space. My homes — and the meaning of what “home” truly means — have evolved over time.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img fetchpriority="high" decoding="async" width="1024" height="768" src="https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/sfhome-1024x768.jpg" alt="" class="wp-image-2419" srcset="https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/sfhome-1024x768.jpg 1024w, https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/sfhome-300x225.jpg 300w, https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/sfhome-768x576.jpg 768w, https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/07/sfhome.jpg 1600w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /><figcaption>The homes on my street in San Francisco were a backdrop for the movie, “The Joy Luck Club.”</figcaption></figure>



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<p>A home should rise to meet you, no matter your budget, and it should tell your story: your culture, interests, where you&#8217;ve traveled. I&#8217;ve shed the shame and learned a lot about how to design a home that is functional, healthy and full of charm. I believe a home should be a sanctuary, where you rest, retreat and just be.</p>



<p>I was honored to have one of my fave design websites, Apartment Therapy, do a tour of&nbsp;<a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label=" (opens in a new tab)" href="https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/toan-lam-san-francisco-rental-apartment-photos-36615323" target="_blank">my storied San Francisco apartment</a> and share my story, one that I long felt was not one worth telling.</p>



<p>I created this video to show you what my home means to me. As I walk you through each room, I talk about some of my favorite things, the stories behind them and of course, a design tip.</p>



<p>Welcome and enjoy.</p>



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<p>If you learned something new or have a question about my home, please hit me up in the comments below. Sharing is caring, so hit that follow button and share this with your peeps.</p>



<p>Love,<br>Toan</p>



<p>Follow me:&nbsp;<a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label=" (opens in a new tab)" href="https://www.facebook.com/GoInspireGo" target="_blank">Facebook</a>,&nbsp;<a href="https://www.youtube.com/user/ToanLamTV" target="_blank" rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label=" (opens in a new tab)">YouTube</a>,&nbsp;<a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label=" (opens in a new tab)" href="https://twitter.com/GoInspireGo" target="_blank">Twitter</a>,&nbsp;<a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label=" (opens in a new tab)" href="https://www.instagram.com/goinspirego/" target="_blank">Instagram</a>.</p>



<p>P.S. Special thanks to Larry Wong and Francisco Raposo for shooting and editing the fabulous video!</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://goinspirego.com/2019/07/toans-home-tour-a-storied-space/">Toan’s Home Tour — A Storied Space</a> appeared first on <a href="https://goinspirego.com">Go Inspire Go</a>.</p>
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		<title>My Style and Spirit Inspirations</title>
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		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Toan Lam]]></dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 21 Jun 2019 20:57:40 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Growing up poor, I carried a lot of shame around the idea of “home,” so I got all emotional when the design blog Apartment Therapy decided to feature mine.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://goinspirego.com/2019/06/my-style-and-spirit-inspirations/">My Style and Spirit Inspirations</a> appeared first on <a href="https://goinspirego.com">Go Inspire Go</a>.</p>
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<p>I’ve been following <a rel="noreferrer noopener" aria-label="Apartment Therapy (opens in a new tab)" href="https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/" target="_blank">Apartment Therapy</a> for a while. If you’re not familiar with this design blog, be prepared to become obsessed with their DIY and interior design ideas and home tours. I told the universe, one day my home will be featured on their website. Gulp. This week, it manifested.</p>



<p>Friends have long been urging me to share my style and penchant for interior design with the world. I was terrified with the idea of opening up my sanctuary that I call home to others. Growing up in a trailer park in South Sacramento, I carried a lot of shame around the idea of “home” and what it meant, both physically and spiritually. So I got all emotional when <a href="https://www.apartmenttherapy.com/toan-lam-san-francisco-rental-apartment-photos-36615323">the Apartment Therapy tour of my home</a> hit the interwebs.</p>



<p>Here’s my deeply personal video diary, right after seeing Apartment Therapy&#8217;s story go live:</p>



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<p>As I reflected on the journey that’s brought me to where I am now, a number of significant memories stood out:</p>



<p>1. I miss my grandmothers, who inspired the style and spiritual sides of me.</p>



<p>2. I was ashamed of the homes I grew up
in. We were poor. </p>



<p>3. I never felt “seen” as a kid. I hid my style because I worried about what other people would say.</p>



<p>Then it hit me — YOU, me, we all are in this adventure called life together. We want to make our loved ones proud of us. We want to feel like we matter. It’s all about being seen, heard and felt. That is what we all want in life.</p>



<figure class="wp-block-image"><img decoding="async" width="1024" height="615" src="https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/apartmentherapy-1024x615.jpg" alt="" class="wp-image-2240" srcset="https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/apartmentherapy-1024x615.jpg 1024w, https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/apartmentherapy-300x180.jpg 300w, https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/apartmentherapy-768x461.jpg 768w, https://goinspirego.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/06/apartmentherapy.jpg 1200w" sizes="(max-width: 1024px) 100vw, 1024px" /><figcaption>Apartment Therapy’s feature on the story of my home and my life.</figcaption></figure>



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<p>Yesterday, I shared a story about <a href="https://goinspirego.com/2019/06/style-spirit-your-story/">why style, spirit and your story matters</a>. I talked about how I serendipitously was guided by my grandmothers’ whispers and how I’m inspiring you through these simple design tips that elevate and shift your spirit.  I never realized I would discover a deep soul connection through this “<a href="/styleyourspirit/">Style Your Spirit</a>” series. WOW.</p>



<p>I know I’m here to illuminate people, to see the beauty around them and to feel it inside them. That is my legacy. After I launched “Style Your Spirit,” so many synchronicities fell into place. I can’t talk about some exciting stuff around the bend yet, but I can talk about today’s “coming out” of sorts or the “unveiling of my whole home and heart” to the world.</p>



<p>So what is your style? How do you show yourself and your spirit to the world? It’s your legacy.&nbsp;You are beautiful and you are enough.</p>
<p>The post <a href="https://goinspirego.com/2019/06/my-style-and-spirit-inspirations/">My Style and Spirit Inspirations</a> appeared first on <a href="https://goinspirego.com">Go Inspire Go</a>.</p>
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